One of the keys to happiness is to embrace the here and now. Get clear on what really is the true state of affairs. See things as they really are, take off the rose colored glasses. Embrace what is.

That doesn’t mean condone it, doesn’t mean accept it in a fatalistic way or get disheartened or even complacent. I understand you have dreams and desires and the current state is not even close to how you want things to be. You say you are committed to changing it all up and having it all, making your dreams a reality. That’s  great  and all but till you get clear on where things stand you cannot plot a course to your promised land. It is quite impossible to know what the first step should be if you don’t know where you stand.

Get clear on where you are, no matter how bad it is. I concede it will not be pleasant but it doesn’t have to be time consuming and anymore painful than absolutely necessary.

Once you are clear, Let it be. That’s right ” let it be”. Focus on what you want instead. Create in great detail your desired outcome. Make a picture in your mind, view it as you would a real photograph. give it detail and definition, deepen and accentuate the colors, include others who are likely to share in that moment. create the background and the setting, even the time of day and a date when this will happen.

now make a movie out of it by adding motion and sounds, see your self in the movie and experience the moment, do it again and again.

Now plan your strategy to attain this goal and take the first step.

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